Guiding you through the living part of dying.
I help people who are facing death, live life.
I’m here to help you reclaim agency over your final season, to set the tone, say what matters, explore the big stuff, and let some joy and sparkle mingle with the tears.
Think of me as your magical fairy godmother, here to make death a little less shit by making the living part the main event.
What You’re Going Through Is hard.
Whether it’s your diagnosis or someone you love, facing death brings up all the big stuff - fear, grief, regret, love and everything in between.
Most people don’t know how to talk about it.
There’s the silence, the awkwardness, the not-knowing-how-to-show-up-ness.
It’s being scared of wasting the time you’ve got left, or screwing up someone else’s final chapter.
Not Your Regular Death Doula.
I’m Emily (Em), a death coach (death doula with a difference), end-of-life support human, and one of the few people in your life willing to talk straight about death and initiate a dance party in the kitchen.
I’ve spent a decade as a coach, guiding people through life’s messy, beautiful, heartbreaking moments. And if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s this: facing death doesn’t mean you stop living.
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I witnessed firsthand how unprepared we are for the living part of dying.
When I lost my mum in 2017, I realised that, without intention, the death part can easily overshadow everything else.
Most of us never learn how to have meaningful conversations about mortality, how to capture precious memories, or how to create significant moments when time is limited.
But when we do, something painful can transform into something profound and beautiful.
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That’s where I come in. An empathetic, impartial human, to help you shape the ending, say what matters, and leave a little magic behind.
Here’s what we can do together.
No two people face death in the same way. What we create together is entirely bespoke, shaped around what matters most to you.
This is your time to die, so let’s do it your way.
Coaching gives you a space to plan, rage, laugh, cry, explore and say the things you can’t always share with loved ones. We make sense of… some of it, so you can face what’s next with as much peace as possible.
Your loved ones deserve better memories than the ones on a phone's photo stream. Together, we’ll pen letters, capture memories on voice recordings or make a memory movie of your life, so your essence can live on.
Celebrate your life while you’re still here to enjoy it. Whether it’s an intimate gathering of four or a full-blown party with everyone you’ve ever loved in one room, this is your moment to honour your life.
The Bit Where You Reach Out
You probably have loads of questions and I get it. This can all feel like a lot.
Maybe you’re here because someone you love is dying and you’re quietly panicking, wondering what the hell you’re supposed to do next.
Maybe you’re the one facing death and thinking… how am I going to do this? how do I want to do this?
Either way, you’re in the right place and it all starts with us having a good old chat. If you’re not a chatter we can start with email.
Pop your details in and let’s talk about how we can make this part a little less shit.